As I type we are preparing for a grand adventure, moving from Richmond, Virginia to Rapid City, South Dakota.We are moving to South Dakota and you don’t understand that
or know what that means yet, but your Dad and I are so very hopeful that you
will love it. Dad is in South Dakota
already, and has been for over three weeks at this point. You miss him dearly and ask about him
regularly, my go to answer for where Daddy is “Daddy is in South Dakota.” You so far have accepted this answer and
provided no further questions about its meaning. You have even started to parrot back to me “South
Dakota.”
I do know that you are going to miss our house, you enjoy
saying “Ellie home.” But know this, your
dad and I did not come to the decision to move us and you across country
lightly. It is something that was
discussed at length, but we both ultimately feel it is the best decision for
you and our family. Your Dad and I have
chosen to put you in an environment with a strong extended support system,
something we don’t have in Virginia.
Your Bammy and Pop Pop are pretty much all we have and they are six
hours away in North Carolina. We want
more than that for you. You don’t know it yet, but you will be surrounded by
family and friends in South Dakota. Time spent with cousins, aunts, uncles,
grandparents, great-grandparents, and friends who are more like family will far
exceed the stress of moving and relocating our lives. Because when your Dad and I stop, and really
think about what is most important to us, it is that you be surrounded by love
and support. And we honestly feel the
best place for that is South Dakota. We do have great friends here in Virginia (which
we will miss dearly) and I don’t want to discount their friendship, but home is
really where your heart is and our hearts are in South Dakota.
We love you Ellie, and I hope you love your new home as much
as we do!